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In the previous article (Cross-Cultural Management #7), I wrote about the “clash of organizational identities” in M&A — when “our company” means entirely different things to each side.
This time, I’ll explore how to actually navigate that clash — through a leader who chose not to “unify” cultures but to design a process for mutual learning.
A leader who spoke with all 160 employees
The leader appointed to head the Japanese subsidiary after the acquisition did something remarkable.
His first move was individual conversations with all 160 employees. Not broadcasting the new vision, but listening — hearing each person’s concerns, fears, and ideas before explaining the company’s direction.
When I heard “160 people,” I was stunned. Even at 30 minutes each, that’s 80 hours. Doing this alongside regular duties meant he had deliberately prioritized dialogue as the single most important strategic action. This wasn’t “walking the floor” — it was designing the integration itself to begin with dialogue.
He understood Japanese organizational culture and didn’t immediately dismantle seniority-based systems. Instead, he guided the transition to performance-based management gradually. He consistently chose “supporting the frontline” over “commanding from above.”
In class discussion, someone asked: “Why didn’t he change the systems first? If you change the structure, behavior follows.” But as we explored deeper, the answer became clear: changing systems without people understanding “why” produces only superficial compliance. This leader invested time in the “why” first, then changed systems. The sequence mattered.
The result: employees began saying things like this:
“Whether our boss is Chinese or Japanese doesn’t matter — above all of us is the customer.”
In terms of the Intercultural Sensitivity model, this represents a shift from “Defense” to “Acceptance.” The “us vs. them” frame dissolved, replaced by a shared value standard — the customer. Behind this shift lay 160 accumulated conversations.
All three CQ components at a high level
Analyzing this leader through the CQ lens reveals mastery of all three components:
- Cognitive CQ: Deep structural understanding of Japanese organizational culture — not just “Japanese people value seniority” but why “security” functionally enables risk-taking and long-term thinking
- Motivational CQ: The sustained effort of 160 conversations — not just willingness, but perseverance through follow-up
- Behavioral CQ: Deliberately shelving top-down authority in favor of dialogue-based, supportive leadership — a strategic behavioral adjustment, not capitulation
Most striking was his understanding that Japanese and Chinese cultures, which look similar to Western observers, contain “invisible differences of enormous significance.” He navigated the “similar culture trap” with mindful precision.
In my own 28-year career, I’ve learned that “similar cultures” are the most dangerous. India and Japan both value hierarchy and respect for elders. But “hierarchy” means subtly different things. In Japan, hierarchy provides stability and order. In India, it enables speed and decisive execution. Because the surface looks similar, you notice the real differences too late, and misalignment deepens before anyone realizes it.
Redefining the public image — overturning “Chinese company = authoritarian”
The public image concept from the previous article functioned at the organizational level too.
The Japanese side carried a strong stereotype: “Chinese companies are authoritarian and irrational.” But this leader systematically dismantled that image through his actions — listening to employees, prioritizing support over command, demonstrating results through trust.
The course called this “redefining public image” — changing how others perceive you not through words, but through the accumulation of actions.
This isn’t a one-way process. The leader acts, employees observe and gradually revise their perceptions, those revised perceptions feed back to the leader, and the quality of interactions improves. Getting this positive spiral started requires considerable patience and consistency.
Does your workplace have labels attached to people or departments? “That person is always like this.” “That team has that culture.” Overturning those labels requires not explanations but accumulated actions. This principle extends far beyond M&A — it applies to everyday management.
“Act without acting” — the origins of supportive leadership
The instructor noted that this leader’s style echoed Laozi’s concept of “wu wei er hua” (無為にして化す) — “effect change without forcing it.” Support rather than control. Instead of imposing ideology, allow employees to discover insights through their own experience.
This doesn’t mean doing nothing. It means continuously creating environments for self-directed growth — through dialogue, education, and evaluation systems. An intensely proactive form of “waiting.”
“Proactive waiting” sounds contradictory, but it’s exactly what good managers do daily: provide materials and environment for thinking, then wait for the person to arrive at their own insight, intervening with questions as needed. In cross-cultural contexts, this becomes exponentially harder because understanding the other person’s premises alone requires enormous effort.
Reflecting on my own organization
My own company was acquired by an Indian firm ten years ago. The parallels to this case were impossible to ignore.
We’ve followed a similar developmental path. Early defensiveness has gradually given way to acceptance and movement toward adaptation. Cross-functional initiatives now naturally incorporate both Japanese and Indian perspectives.
But comparing our experience to this case leader, one thing became painfully clear: our integration process lacked the equivalent of “160 conversations.” Policies were communicated. Systems were changed. But the process of dialogue until each individual genuinely understood “why” was insufficient.
That’s why, even after ten years, “we don’t know what headquarters is thinking” hasn’t fully disappeared. Building the systems for trust and information-sharing is a long-term challenge that doesn’t end in a decade. This is not a process that “completes.” It’s one that “continues.” Recognizing this — from both the case and my own experience — was itself a crucial learning.
The lesson from this case: successful integration isn’t about making cultures identical — it’s about designing a process where different cultures can coexist and learn from each other. That design requires dialogue, patience, and above all, the willingness to understand the other side’s rationality. This applies beyond M&A — whenever a new member joins, an org restructures, or a client contact changes. At each encounter with “different culture,” can you choose “learning together” over “imposing uniformity”? That capacity is what tomorrow’s leaders need. And it’s built not overnight, but through the daily accumulation of dialogue and self-reflection.
Recommended reading
To map your organization’s cultural profile
Erin Meyer, The Culture Map: Breaking Through the Invisible Boundaries of Global Business (PublicAffairs)
Introduced in #1 but doubly valuable in the M&A context. Use the eight dimensions — communication, evaluation, decision-making, trust-building — to map “where exactly do the acquirer’s and target’s cultures differ?” before designing an integration plan.
→ Next: [Cross-Cultural Management #9] asks how far global companies should adapt to local cultures — and what happens when they go too far.
